as for mothering. well. i did cook for like a year to my parents. i just looked in the fridge and freezer and storage and improvised. every day. well. ive said that lots. but i felt what i was like. for your husband to never appretiate your food. or spouse then. ive went through many phases. this seems to be the last. hey. ill get my own apartment. and just how do you survive -35? hey rhyme! ^____^